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I have a theory as to why some men tend to stay away from Ms. Independent. I truly believe that it is all about control. Men need to feel that they are in charge and that they are the boss of the household/relationship. They love to be the one "in control" of things. It is a womans' job to let her man think he is running everything, though we all know that it is the woman who truly runs the ship.
As we all know, there are those women, who are submissive and allow the man control their every step and/or thought. Those women allow their man to have the only say IN EVERYTHING. Too each its own. Usually, those women are not Ms. Independent but are Ms. Too Damn Dependent. In my opinion, for men in the 18-30 age range, it is all about control. If a female has her own, then he cant control her. She doesnt need his money, his connections, his knowledge on certain "man things" (i.e. oil changes), or his ability to program all electronics to work with the push of one button.
Ms. Independent is able to handle things on her and can fend for herself. Having her own house and car means she can leave when she wants, go home when she wants, have company when she wants... She's free. Now, I am aware that there is such a thing as being too independent but I think that majority of the women who are independent are rightfully so. They've worked hard to acquire the things they have so why should they be punished by men chosing not to pursue or entertain them for that. I think their are alot of men who equate an independent woman with having too much of an opinion, or being too smart to get over on and that is why they go for those who are more "needy".
Again, these are just my thoughts and opinions- please feel free to agree or disagree. Either way, let me know what's good.
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Yeah a lot of these men have control issues, but then some say they like a woman that knows what she wants right? Honestly, it is hard for me to understand what some men want sometimes. I've heard some men say that they want a strong woman and some say that they want a woman that is submissive. In my last relationship, I was more independent than anything and me and him argued about it..he wanted me just to shut up and let him control everything, but I was like look, a relationship is about compromise and not control. And for the most part, he didn't even lift a hand to do things in the relationship that takes responsibility so what was a girl to do? LOL!!
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