Here are 25 questions to ask and answer with ur boyfriend. I dont remember where I originally got these questions, but they are good to know the answers too when you become committed to another person. I believe that this list of question was created to help a couple dig deeper and gain more insight on their views about important components of a relationship. The responses to these questions can make or break a seemingly good thing.
Remember... HONESTY IS ALWAYS THE BEST POLICY!!!
1. Kids or no kids?
2. Smoking or no smoking?3. Drinking or no drinking? (Same for drugs)
4. Religious beliefs: Match? Blend? Clash?
5. Who works? Who stays home (especially when the kids come along)?
6. Who wants to live where?
7. Who controls the checkbook?
8. What is his/her personal relationship with his/her family? Too distant? Too close? Too weird? Appropriate to your standards?
9. How are holidays spent? At home? With family? Alone? Vacationing?
10. Windows opened or closed? Heat/AC on or off?
11. What side of the bed must you (he/she) sleep on?
12. Where to spend vacations? Leisure time?
13. Sick: Left alone or babied?
14. Appropriate gift giving: birthdays? Yuletide holidays? Special occasions?
15. Who does what around the house?
16. What is acceptable hygiene?
17. What are his/her hobbies, pastimes?
18. Preferences: Music? Movie? Book favorites?
19. Favorite foods?
20. Pets or no pets? What kind?
21. Decisions about the children: School, church, discipline, allowance, extra curricular activities, friends, and curfew?
22. Mealtimes: Early or late?
23. Furniture: Vintage or Contemporary?
24. Sleeping habits: Four hours or eight?
25. How does your new love handle a crisis? Behave in public places? Treat your friends and family?
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Those are all good questions to ask. I am going to write these down so I can ask potentials in the future..hahaha
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